सपने भी कहां अपने होते हे....

सपने भी कहां अपने होते हे,

ये भी किसी के दिये हुए होते हे,

अगर सच हुए तो खुशी... 

वरना टुटे हुए से भी अजीब से रिश्ते होते हे,

होंसला भी क्यूं हारु मे अगर कोई तुटा,

तुटे हुए सपनो से ही हमारे अपने होते हे.

                      - खुशाली जोशी

होंसला बना रेहता

झीक्र जब भी हुआ, सीर्फ हमारी कमजोरिया ही देखी गई,

थोडी सी कामीयाबी भी देख लेते तो होंसला बना रेहता,

बहोत मेहनत की हे हमने हर एक चीज पाने मे,

अकेले ही चल दीये हम रास्ते के हर एक मोड आने पे,

रास्ते का आनेवाला हर मोड हमे ना डगा पाता,

अगर तुम रास्ता आसान बना देते तो होंसला बना रेहता,

क्या सोचा था तुमने थक जायेगी और रुक के मुड जायेगी,

एक औरत ही तो है, ऐसे कहा तक जायेगी,

हे हौसला बुलंद, हमे ना जरूरत कीसी की हे, 

सुनलो ए समाज वालो हम नही मोहताज तुम्हारे कीसी मोहरे की हे,

हे इतना दम, की हर जगह हमारा दबदबा बना रेहता,

ये बात अगर पेहले ही मान लेते तुम तो होंसला बना रेहता.

- खुशाली जोशी

Indian Society and Motherhood

"Woman" a very beautiful and precious creation of God. But unfortunately, this beautiful creation is not treated beautifully in our society. If I start writing about the life of women since she born than it is a very vast topic to discuss, but let me bring some glimpse of the most beautiful  and turning point of every woman's life, and that is "Motherhood"

"Motherhood" a very beautiful and precious gift of God to a woman. And it is a matter of her choice too. Though Expectations and experiences of motherhood are different from woman to woman.

Being a Mother is the main turning point of women's life. After that, her whole life, her priorities and thinking has been changed. Not only her thinking but people's mentality and point of view towards her also been changed. Here I am exploring some facts, situations and mentality which every woman have to face after wearing the crown of a mother.

Indian society is full of various ritual and culture and the main victim of it is a woman. every time By hook or by cook she needs to follow some rules and traditions. There are so many ladies out there who becomes a mother for the first time,  shared their experience regarding it, and it sounds they feel really very helpless sometimes.

Same as coin motherhood having two sides too. After the born of baby, our so-called traditional society thinks that the women have to forget her freedom to live her life on her own. Even every little thing she desires came to her with the tag of "conditions applied". Working women need to leave their job and have to look after kids and her family only, and if she wants to work, then she has to face so many criticisms, which forces her to give up sometimes. 

Due to continuous criticism, she feels so frustrated and mentally broken that she can not even concentrate on her routine responsibilities. The saddest thing of our society that the women are the only biggest critic of another woman. Once you become a mother, there is a long list of do's and dont's has been handed over to you by this society. You are supposed to not allowed to do such things of your choice just because you are a mother now.

In this digital era and modernization of society, people are trying to reduce the generation gap and cope up with the new thinking, people are accepting new changes and new thinking of today's generation, but these people belong to a very small portion of our society.  There is still a huge part of society is full of people who stick to their rigidness, and to change their mind is almost impossible.

Women of today's era are well educated and very ambitious, she can manage everything on her own, yes she needs guidance but it should be given politely. And if you try to control her, she feels suffocated, it's like you cut her wings and put her in a locked cage so that she can't fly again. 

Please don't do this, if you find any woman around you who is ambitious or willing to do something for her independency or dignity, please do support her and respect her thinking. Being a mother it is not easy for her to manage all at once but still, she is trying to manage work and getting success in it too. 

We have so many successful mothers in India who did tremendous work in her field and us proud of them. At last, I just want to say  that "don't give up ladies, you are the biggest  inspiration of your child, Go ahead, cross your boundaries if needed, you have enough power to change the world, just have faith in you."

Thank you

Khushali Joshi.

"Nepotism"...Sudden Voice Of Youth...

After the shocking suicide news by brilliant actor Sushant Singh Rajput, due to depression by nepotism, the wave of protest against "NEPOTISM" starts and now we can see the result of people's reaction in social media.

Those who don't know about nepotism  is now well aware about it, everyone is  raising his/her voice against star kids and some big faces of Bollywood in social media. 

Actually it is good to raise our voice against any of violence but the fact is nepotism is not only in Bollywood, it is everywhere, but we ignore it due to one or another reason,  harassment from the high authority is one of them.

Direct or indirect we all has been part of nepotism or we have been face this nepotism in many ways, such as In education, in corporate job both private and government, in our society, in our family too many people suffer by this nepotism. Nepotism is nothing but one kind of curruption or partiality in system. 

Well qualified candidate got rejected and less qualified got selected by reference of some powerful person is nepotism, Any student with high rank is not getting admission in school or collage but student with low grade got easily by donation or just because he is relative of trustee or any other person who is in power, this is nepotism, After marriage, considering and treating a girl as an outsider in her in law's family is nepotism.

In one political party, one leader mother assign her well designated seat to his son or daughter only, even though there is more talented and capable leaders available in party than him/her is the biggest example of nepotism. And no one in the party raise their voice against it.

We faces so many such things which consider as a nepotism in our day to day life. Now the thing is when it happens with any celebrity than sudden voice of youth against nepotism arise, than why not against any other issues of our society? We have strong and educated youth base in our country, just think same way if we start reacting for other issues too than we can reduce nepotism upto some level.

According to you, should we develop such law to stop nepotism? Or should we simplify the system with some rules and regulations? Please comment below your views. And also have you notice any nepotism around you? If yes than Have you raise your voice against it? Then also comment your experience.

Let's stand together against NEPOTISM.

Thank you.

Khushali joshi

Life, Struggle, Success and you....

We have been through so many phases in life, some situation may build us while some may break us. Since the day we born we start getting lessons to survive in this world, Lessons may in form of advice, punishment or anything which makes us understand actually what means the Life is. 

Its all about "YOU" how you are dealing with it. When we born we have simple path in front of us as a Life. but how it will be turning is totally depends upon us. We create some situations or some situation may create us,  its upon us how we are going to live in.

"Life, Struggle, Success and You' is my small initiative to talk about surroundings you see in your day to day life.